ஐღº Words unspoken ºღஐ

Dear readers of my blog... Im glad that there are still people that reads my blog... to you all that are reading this now, thanks for everything... Lets get to the point shall we?

I want you to take a minute of your time, and close your eyes... Think about how much you know people around you... those that you treasure, and those whom are important to you...

Sometimes people ask, "how much to you know about that person?"

To many the meaning of "knowing" someone is to understand everything that person has said or done. And to others, are that they have spent a long time being friends with them. But does by understanding every single word coming out of that person's mouth makes us understand them? Well yes it does, but sometimes there are things that are beyond the reach of words...

Just think about it by yourself, ever had a hard time trying to describe your feelings? When something so complex happened... to a limit that you don't know what are you thinking about anymore? Some couples at this time would argue... well as i said, SOME only... They just couldn't shut up and listen... they just kept talking and talking, and when one of them says: "I don't know" The other would stress on and say: "Yes you know, you just don't want to tell me".

Well the thing is, at times of our life, there are certain times where we really don't know how to describe our feelings. and as friends, family or even lovers, just by asking "HEY WHATS WRONG?" Sometimes doesn't tells you the true truth of the story... Words are something that make sense to us and gives us the meaning of a person's mind, but if a person were to be able to understand another person's sorrow, joy, anger, hatred etc when the person are feeling complicated without the person to have to say a word, that is true understanding of a person... Which is not just understanding a person's spoken words, but also those that weren't revealed with words... and are indescribable with words...

Honestly even for me i could not do so... For it is not easy... sometimes there are something that could hear better than our ears... visuals better than our eyes... louder than our mouth... Which is a heart... I once come upon a friend of mine that said this "To love a person is to give them a gun pointed at your heart, and trust that they do not pull the trigger".

To open up your own heart is like a turtle out of its shell... vulnerable... weak... As i've always said, every bits of good will have its bad side. and every bad would have its good side... just like the strong bonds and relationship people could form...

Another quote i heard from someone "With you beside me for 100 years i could build a kingdom, with you beside me forever i could give up all that". Read that a few times and you will find it kind of weird as tho it doesn't really make sense... but the truth that he is trying to tell is that, if a he were to be with her for 100 years, he would build a kingdom that he always dream of with her... but if he were given a chance to be with her forever, he would give up everything, even his dream and spend every second of 'forever' with her... Although he said 'forever' but he understood that forever is just a term... everyone knows that nothing lives forever... it just slowly changes into another something... nothing would always and forever be the same... but changing for the better or worst, that will only be told by fate itself....

To be challenged by fear,

are frightening...

To not know whats going on,

are worst...

To love or hate a person,

are tiring...

To lose the chance of doing so,

are indescribable...

outss...

ஐღº A.C ºღஐ

ஐღº The Circle of Behavior ºღஐ

At time people do get over confident and egoistic... Those are the things that brings people to their failure and stroke them down... Even in the histories we could see many great figures that almost rule the world, or even claimed great power for themselves... But sometimes being egoistic and looking down on enemies and what life presents us with, we tend to give it a chance to beat us and overcome us.

A person's attitude and behavior are like a circle, when a person are stripped off from everything, with not even a single penny in their pocket, they treat people kind and well.. you get what i mean... But as they get rich and got hold of power, things like that made them change... into another person that sometimes we would not recognize... because of their achievements they have changed, so questions was raised... Was this achievement of that person made him into a better person? Or has it destroyed the person's original self?

In this world there are never such things as wanting a person to adapt to you, because that person are what that surround you... You could never have your surroundings to adapt to you, but you could have yourself adapted to your surroundings. Its more like a two way thing, thats why people often says that in a relationship, both must adapt to each other... Its only then two person could be together as one...

Therefore sometimes when a person's surroundings such as money, power, fame... and so on so forth, made them into another person that was overruled by greed and supremacy, its up to those around that person who are still aware of whats happening to give them a knock on the head, to wake them up from being influenced by this evil... It was told before that one person's true happiness was formed from friendship... With friendship, many things that couldn't be said to understand could be understand... Only another's mind would be able to understand another's... But there is a hiccup, as complicated as the mind are... sometimes its unexplainable how and why do we do something... That is when the need of understanding another's silence comes in to play...

As one get out of control of themselves, with people that cares for the person to bring that person back, are something that fame and money would never be able to do.. to bring a person back their own humanity... their rationality... To make the person who they are again... People just need an epiphany to understand what they have lose from that they have gain... In life many things are fair and equal... One good thing that happened will lead to a bad one... just like momentum, punching something with your fist would cause the same amount of force to act back your fist... Sometimes when something good happens, doesn't mean the bad side would happen... Sometimes when something bad happens, doesn't mean the good will never come... Its just a matter of time...

Always be cautions of

where you are,

who you are,

what you live for,

and where you stand...

Do not lose who you are with what you possess,

possess yourself and do not lose what you have.

outss...

ஐღº A.C ºღஐ