I want you to take a minute of your time, and close your eyes... Think about how much you know people around you... those that you treasure, and those whom are important to you...
Sometimes people ask, "how much to you know about that person?"
To many the meaning of "knowing" someone is to understand everything that person has said or done. And to others, are that they have spent a long time being friends with them. But does by understanding every single word coming out of that person's mouth makes us understand them? Well yes it does, but sometimes there are things that are beyond the reach of words...
Just think about it by yourself, ever had a hard time trying to describe your feelings? When something so complex happened... to a limit that you don't know what are you thinking about anymore? Some couples at this time would argue... well as i said, SOME only... They just couldn't shut up and listen... they just kept talking and talking, and when one of them says: "I don't know" The other would stress on and say: "Yes you know, you just don't want to tell me".
Well the thing is, at times of our life, there are certain times where we really don't know how to describe our feelings. and as friends, family or even lovers, just by asking "HEY WHATS WRONG?" Sometimes doesn't tells you the true truth of the story... Words are something that make sense to us and gives us the meaning of a person's mind, but if a person were to be able to understand another person's sorrow, joy, anger, hatred etc when the person are feeling complicated without the person to have to say a word, that is true understanding of a person... Which is not just understanding a person's spoken words, but also those that weren't revealed with words... and are indescribable with words...
Honestly even for me i could not do so... For it is not easy... sometimes there are something that could hear better than our ears... visuals better than our eyes... louder than our mouth... Which is a heart... I once come upon a friend of mine that said this "To love a person is to give them a gun pointed at your heart, and trust that they do not pull the trigger".
To open up your own heart is like a turtle out of its shell... vulnerable... weak... As i've always said, every bits of good will have its bad side. and every bad would have its good side... just like the strong bonds and relationship people could form...
Another quote i heard from someone "With you beside me for 100 years i could build a kingdom, with you beside me forever i could give up all that". Read that a few times and you will find it kind of weird as tho it doesn't really make sense... but the truth that he is trying to tell is that, if a he were to be with her for 100 years, he would build a kingdom that he always dream of with her... but if he were given a chance to be with her forever, he would give up everything, even his dream and spend every second of 'forever' with her... Although he said 'forever' but he understood that forever is just a term... everyone knows that nothing lives forever... it just slowly changes into another something... nothing would always and forever be the same... but changing for the better or worst, that will only be told by fate itself....
To be challenged by fear,
are frightening...
To not know whats going on,
are worst...
To love or hate a person,
are tiring...
To lose the chance of doing so,
are indescribable...
outss...
ஐღº A.C ºღஐ
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